On Sunday, June 25th, 2023, Assunta "Sue" Vaccarelli, crossed over to be reunited with her beloved husband of 68 years, Anthony "Tony" Vaccarelli. She spent the last days of her century long life, surrounded and embraced by the love of her family as she prepared to transition to Heaven.
Sue was brought into this world by Celeste and James Vaccaro, and spent most of her early years growing up in Allenhurst where her family resided after moving from Asbury Park. She enjoyed being raised in a full household of 4 brothers (Al, Fred, Tony, and Jim Vaccaro) and 3 sisters (Rita Trebino, Mary Francese, and Fanny O'Toole), and remained close to them all throughout their lives and hers.
Her cousin, Nancy, was always looking for a "finders fee" for the ultimate matchmaking success of introducing her to Tony Vaccarelli, the brother of Nancy's husband at the time, Pat. And Tony, until the day he died, told Nancy any fee would be acceptable as marrying Sue was the best decision of his life. They were hopelessly in love, and remained devoted to each other their entire lives. Many a late night, you'd find Tony in the kitchen emptying the dishwasher, not because Sue had asked him to, but as he often put it..."because it makes me feel so good to know your Mom doesn't have to do it in the morning". And decades later, when Tony was diagnosed with a progressive disease, Sue stayed by his side caring for him at home until the day he died.